So, hey there everybody out in blogging land. How has everybody been? I have to say its been a real long time since i have blogged, and i miss it. Alot hase gone on in my life but i dont really feel like catching all of you up so i'll start from here. For the past year i have lived with at least some part of my family at all times. They never had the chance to forget about me and that made me feel great. BUT NOW i have my own place and i am truely convinced, after a week of me not calling, that if i dont make the effort they dont care.....WHATEVER .....no sweat off of my back at all. For you see i am a lesbian, i have a grilfriend with whom i live with and plenty of friends that i know love me too I am also the token of a very not so picture perfect life that my family endured for 16 years until my folks got divorced. Dads side is welthy and could never stand my moms side and my mothers side never liked my dads because they were just extremely judgemental. I on the other hand banged into an ex-bestfriend of my mothers the other day and she saw in me nothing that could even slightly resemble any trace of the families tha i grew up in....THANK GOD FOR THAT...so today the thought is lets see how much time goes by before they notice that i, melinda ann law, live for myself and im not going to try to claw my way into their lives...............................nope not at all.....i also need to get back to my meetings that i reguraly attened for 5 years because i miss some people there who make my life even better ...you know who you are